Sunday, July 13, 2008


Today is Sunday. I think because it is a day of rest, I am able to reflect more on the things that are most important to me. The Lord truly knew what he was doing when he gave us a day to slow down and refuel. I must admit that sometimes I have to make myself remember this concept.

Anyway, I am in S. Cal visiting Mom. She has been asleep for most of the time that I have been here this morning. Her awake times have shifted more to the afternoons. She loves when I come and clean her room. She is not able to get out of bed to do it herself. That must be so frustrating! She has been in this very bed for 15 years. She is such an example of patience and endurance. 

So as I sat in this room I reflected on her life. Behind her on the wall is pictures of a life well lived. There are pictures of a girl's trip to Europe, college graduation, a loving grandfather, a even a page containing her name of "Who's Who in American Colleges".  Anyway, even though at a quick glance you see a woman reduced to a bed and few bookshelves, this is one woman who lived life to the fullest. Maybe somehow she knew that her life would change drastically with a stroke at 30 years old.

I love you mom and am so grateful for the fullness of life that you gave to John and I. The only thing that holds you back from those pearly gates is that they just aren't ready for your energy. After all it has been bundled up for quite some time.

1 comment:

The Richardsons said...

I gained such great respect for grandma when I had to stay in that hospital bed for 10 measly days and was going out of my mind. You're such a good daughter mom, to spend so much time with Grandma and love her the way you do!